This is something that nobody really likes to discuss but, I'm volunteering to mention it all again. First, understand that the boat you are fishing in does not belong to you. You haven't paid for it, paid the bills, registration, boat launch fees, extra fuel to drag it to the lake, store it, etc. Please be mindful of that. I heard a perpetual non-boater in the club years ago argue that "the day is half over so it's my turn to drive and decide where we fish". That will not happen. I guess if you were willing to pay for ALL the aforementioned costs, you could make that argument but, there are only about 5 people in the whole world I would give that responsibility to and 4 of those are relatives. If after 4 hours, neither you or the boat owner haven got a fish, you may SUGGEST the location and technique you caught them 3 months ago, but, questioning the boater may get you a quick ride back to the dock. Consider going out with someone a privilege. Which brings me to another point. Boat gas! It's not free and you, as the non boater, should help split that expense. If you are at a local fish-in, $20-30 is about right. A weekend trip to Potholes or Banks, expect to kick out at least $100. If you can't afford it, make sure you tell your potential partner long before the trip to give him an opportunity to find someone else. I generally, if I've enjoyed the company won't even accept it as I had the plans of going whether alone or not, but, many guys spend ALL the play money they have to go and expect help. One member of our club years ago had a sticker that said "this boat doesn't run on Thanks". Think about it, it's sure not free for the boater, so, why should it be free for you? DO NOT bring TOO MUCH Sh-t! No boater is impressed when you bring 12 rods or 3 tackle boxes. Leave 90% of your gear at home. A good rule is to think about the airport. ALL of your crap has to fit in a small carry on compartment. Which is about what most boaters will have available to you. One compartment. My little boat is 17' and there is no room for an ice chest, 12 rods, 3 tackle boxes, rain gear and your collection of Tupperware. I've been in WBC for 20 years. To really fit in and have plenty of opportunities to be invited out again, follow the above. It will solidify your chances. If you break something, PLAN on paying for it. Help out when launching. Buy the guy a Pepsi or lunch when you stop for gas, etc. Don't step on anything shiny, with glitter or the seats. The word that travels around the boaters is way faster than the boat you don't have, so, don't think that if you quietly walk away and not offer up your hard earned money that boater won't tell the others. Believe me, I've seen it happen. You start calling around looking for an open back seat and "everyone is bringing a buddy". Tight lines everyone and see you in a couple weeks.....
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